Tuesday 27 December 2011

Change ............

" You change for two reasons: 
Either you learn enough that you want to, 
or you've been hurt enough that you have to."


 In every forest, on every farm, in every orchard on earth, it's what's under the ground that creates what's above the ground. That's why placing your attention on the fruits that you have already grown is futile. You cannot change the fruits that are already hanging on the tree. You can, however, change tomorrow's fruits. But to do so, you will have to dig below the ground and strengthen the roots.


 The appearance of things change  according to the emotions, and thus we see magic and beauty in them, while the magic and beauty are really in ourselves.


 The world we have created is a product of our thinking.
It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.


 Deep down inside we know
that the best gifts
don't come from catalogs
or shopping malls
They don't come in brightly-colored packages
or fancy envelopes
and they're not sitting under a tree somewhere...
 
The best gifts come from the heart.
They come when we look at each other
REALLY look at each other
and say 'You mean a lot to me'
or 'I'm so glad you're a part of my life'
 
A gift like that
will never go out of style
or be forgotten
or be returned for a different size.
A gift like that can change the world.


 This bright, new day... complete with 24 hours of opportunities, choices, and attitudes… a perfectly matched set of 1440 minutes.This unique gift, this one day, cannot be exchanged , replaced or refunded. Handle with care. Make the most of it. There is only one to a customer.


 When you plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. You look for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water, or less sun. You never blame the lettuce.

Yet if we have problems with our friends or family, we blame the other person. But if we know how to take care of them, they will grow well, like the lettuce. Blaming has no positive effect at all, nor does trying to persuade using reason and argument.

No blame, no reasoning, no argument, just understanding.

If you understand, and you show that you understand, you can love, and the situation will  change.



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